Tag Archives: relationships

Hey you, let me in.

Regardless of where you live in the world, it can be very depressing. Covid-19 is isolating people. Human rights are being violated and lost. Economies are crashing. Natural disasters are occurring. People are dying. Too many see no hope for the future. Now more than anytime in recent history, it is important to not onlyContinue reading “Hey you, let me in.”

I once had someone ask me repeatedly why I liked him.

Have you ever had someone ask you why you like them and you never really answered their question? Maybe you didn’t know why. Maybe you weren’t ready to answer. Maybe you didn’t know them that well. Maybe you thought they were looking for a specific answer but you weren’t sure what answer they were lookingContinue reading “I once had someone ask me repeatedly why I liked him.”

Man Posturing: The Puffy Chest

Puffy chest posturing defined: A type of male posturing used by men for a variety of reasons in various social settings. Puffy chest can be recognized by the immediate intake of breath, puffing out of the chest, lowering of the voice, rigid stance, chin drawn inward, and loud speaking voice. Usually the arms are noContinue reading “Man Posturing: The Puffy Chest”

Problem solving requires looking at the negative, whether it is in a personal relationship or a school or work environment.

Natural problem solvers identify negative situations, policies, or practices and hone in on them like a fly to honey. People who cannot deal with conflict immediately start screaming about being positive. They love the phrase “just pray about it”. In other words, please don’t change the status quo because it frightens me. As I saidContinue reading “Problem solving requires looking at the negative, whether it is in a personal relationship or a school or work environment.”

Whom to date? Look how someone is behaving during the COVID-19 crises.

One great positive of the COVID-19 pandemic is that it has shown most people’s true priorities and personality. People become more of what they already were/are during times of crises. The strong become stronger. The weak become weaker. The selfish become more selfish. The violent and angry become angrier and more violent. The stupid becomeContinue reading “Whom to date? Look how someone is behaving during the COVID-19 crises.”

Where Are the Alpha/Beta Males? I Want One of Them.

Yes, I want a man who can step up and be an Alpha if he needs to but is confident enough to be a Beta about 80 percent of the time. I’ve met a few in my lifetime. I’ve dated a couple. I know they exist. Other men will tell you this guy is anContinue reading “Where Are the Alpha/Beta Males? I Want One of Them.”